Love this group. There are three areas that we women need to consider to look after ourselves and then help our friends, male as well as female become excellent there also: self-care, self- aware and pattern-aware. First to take care of ourselves here is a good inage (a hungry waitress makes a very poor server!), then self-awareness about what goes on in our inner world, and finally pattern-awareness where we look at the behaviors we tend to repeat and repeat till we transform them. Ah, that constitutes wholeness. We will be going a GUTSY WOMEN week-end in Pa outside of Phila and near Manhattan May 20-22. contact me at [email protected] for info. and let me know your best definition of GUTSY.